Everyone teaches the same boring stuff when it comes to dementia care.
I take positive communication a step further: don’t just “validate,” don’t “redirect or distract,” instead, truly, actually, live in the world of the person living with dementia. Here’s the bottom line: we need to stop telling people “not to lie to someone living with dementia.” It’s confusing, it’s black-and-white, it’s too simple. Dementia caregiving is anything but inside-the-box.
What is Dementia By Day?
Dementia By Day is a dementia care consulting company that helps senior living providers elevate their dementia care. Let me tell you why that’s so important.
I started this company in 2014 not as a company, but as a blog. I had just received my Master’s in Gerontology and had begun working as a Dementia Care Program Manager at a Brookdale community in North Carolina. I realized during my time there that I had a ton of stories to share about the day-to-day in a dementia care community. After only a couple months of writing, readers were asking me to turn my experiences into a book. I pitched my idea around and Johns Hopkins University Press picked it up. My book, “When Someone You Know is Living in a Dementia Care Community,” was published in 2016.
I kept writing and started making videos on YouTube. I realized that there was a huge gap in the collective knowledge base about transitioning a person into a dementia care community—and that even senior living providers didn’t really know what people living with dementia needed.
After Brookdale, I moved to Pittsburgh and worked in two more care communities. Eventually, however, I was laid off—and totally devastated. I went home, hopped online and started job hunting again. After about ten minutes of scrolling, though, I closed my MacBook. I knew that it was time to do what I’d always wanted to do: turn my blog, my book and all my experience into a full-fledged business.
I work with care communities and senior living providers who want to be the best in show. They’re tired of telling their staff to “Validate—never lie” and, “Just redirect and distract” residents. They’re exhausted going around and around with families who don’t understand dementia care or what to expect in a dementia care community. (And why would families know? My book is the ONLY one out there about moving someone to a dementia care community!) I work with senior living providers who don’t want to break the bank to license someone else’s pre-made dementia care program; instead, they want some help to build their own.
Thanks to my years of hands-on experience, blog, podcast, YouTube channel, and two published books with Johns Hopkins University Press, families of individuals living with dementia trust me. My book, “When Someone You Know…” is the only book on the market about moving someone to a care community. My second book, “Creative Engagement,” will be out in June 2020.
I know I can help your organization. Let’s talk.
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My most recent interview in The Washington Post (July 2019)