I like to take my father from his assisted living center for short trips to visit family, other places. He seems more alert and oriented and talks during the trips about everything he sees. Is it a problem to take people with dementia out of their familiar surroundings? He seems to get bored if he doesn't go someplace every few days and even a short trip seems to cheer him up. My sisters feel we should keep him in his unit more and not take him out as much. What do you think is safe?

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This is a great question and one I get often! I think you’re doing the right thing by taking him out! I always tell families that it depends on the resident and how they do on trips. As long as he’s enjoying himself and leaving and coming back to the community without a problem, taking him on trips is a wonderful idea. There may come a time when it becomes more difficult (for example, he’s not wanting to go back inside the community) or perhaps it will always be a nice, easy transition. All I can say now, though, is that you’re doing what’s best for him and for you by taking him on trips. 

My only recommendation is to avoid taking him to his old house or anywhere that would cause extra confusion. Many of my residents believe that they still live at home, so seeing their old houses causes them a great deal of stress and befuddlement. Otherwise, this sounds like it’s going really well!

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Rachael Wonderlin has a Master’s in Gerontology and is the author of two published books with Johns Hopkins University Press. She owns Dementia By Day, a dementia care consulting company.

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