Continuing, I got her placed in a dementia care unit. My problem is feel terrible! When she calls me to come get her or gets weepy it's bad. When she seems lucid it's worse! Help! I cry all the time grieving both mom and dad. How do I get past the doubts??

Rachael Wonderlin is an internationally-recognized dementia care expert and consultant. She has a Master’s in Gerontology and is the author of three published books with Johns Hopkins University Press. Rachael owns Dementia By Day, a dementia care consulting and education company.