Hi, great questions! Honestly, it really depends on the person, but I can tell you from experience it takes people on average a week or two to adjust. (Some people are fine after 3 days!) I once had a family member call me angrily because “I had had her mom for three days and she still asked about going home”. I tried to explain to her that her mom would probably ALWAYS ask about going home when she saw her. The same goes for you, really: your husband sees you, he’s reminded of home, and he’s probably going to ask when you’re taking him back with you. It can be hard, but steel yourself for this to continue. My residents rarely ask ME about going home and seem happily engaged, but then when a loved one shows up, they are asking them about returning home. The best answer here is something like, “really soon, the doctor wants you here until your —- (hip, foot, etc, anything) heals.” No mention of dementia. In terms of visiting, you can visit as much as you would like. That is entirely up to you and your relationship with your husband. There’s no right or wrong amount of visiting time, as long as you feel like he can adjust accordingly without you being there.